I did the comparison properly over a few months, before forming any view. Looking back, how support responds to a real problem is easy to check and almost never checked. The result repeated without exception in a way the app store reviews never captured. Take it as one data point on balance, and adjust as you go.

I looked at this from a few angles on this, which is where the interesting part started. What kept coming up was how easy it is to delete an account, which quietly determines how long you stay. It held steady again and again in every week I bothered to measure.

I stuck with it longer than most people would in my own time, and the pattern turned out to be consistent. The thing nobody mentions is that how the app treats people who travel is the thing people consistently underestimate.

What I would tell someone starting from scratch:

  • Check whether the sign-up asks for a phone number — check it on a real account, not a demo.
  • Look at whether the app shows when a profile was last online — the difference between options is large here.
  • Worth confirming how the onboarding handles preferences — this alone ruled a couple out for me.
  • Find out how many prompts the profile format offers
  • Ask whether you can delete your account without contacting support — most apps are quiet about this.

I asked around before drawing any conclusion in my own time, and the pattern turned out to be consistent. What kept coming up was how wide the distance filter goes, which drives the outcome more than luck does. It was true fairly clearly regardless of how I framed the profile. The only real test is your own area genuinely, before committing any real time.