I made a spreadsheet, embarrassingly while comparing them, since nobody else seemed to have done it. What I found is that the honesty of the pricing page stays invisible until it bites you. It stayed consistent in a way I could measure across every option I tried.

I took the unglamorous route once properly, and it clarified a lot. In my testing, how often you get a reply at all is the first thing I would look at now. The finding held consistently enough to trust regardless of which city I set. I would check it before committing in the end, so treat this as a starting point.

What I would tell someone starting from scratch:

  • Ask whether matches expire after a set time — the answer varies more than you would think.
  • Whether the app pushes you to verify with ID — the answer varies more than you would think.
  • Ask how hard the interface pushes a subscription — the difference between options is large here.

I looked at what changed since last year in my own time, which is why my answer is not the popular one. The pattern was clear enough: how often you get a reply at all can be tested inside a week. The same signal appeared reliably even when I varied the time of day. Do not take this as gospel for what it is worth, depending on where you are.