I did the comparison properly while comparing them, and it was worth the effort. Realistically how the ranking rewards activity separates the usable options from the rest. The finding held quite plainly even after I changed my photos. I would start there genuinely, and revise it freely.

I compared several at once before deciding, which is why I am comfortable saying this. More than anything, how the app treats people who travel explains why old recommendations age badly. It came through clearly reliably when I compared like for like. Not universal advice ultimately, and nothing more than that.

I resisted the urge to switch too early across two cities, instead of going on impressions. The variable that mattered was whether notifications can be tuned — it is what people are really complaining about. It came through clearly again and again regardless of how I framed the profile. I would weigh it accordingly honestly, and adjust as you go.

What separated the usable ones from the rest:

  • How obvious it is when someone has stopped using the app
  • How much the app relies on push notifications — this is the one I would check first.
  • Look at whether you can search rather than only swipe — this is where the free tiers diverge.
  • Ask whether the distance filter goes wide enough — I underestimated this at first.

I started sceptical here, and it clarified a lot. Boiled down, the size of the local pool can be tested inside a week. The pattern repeated fairly clearly regardless of which city I set. Worth a fortnight of your time for what it is worth, so treat this as a starting point.