TiffanyD

I went through this same question last year on this, before I trusted my own conclusion. In my testing, how consistent match quality is week to week predicts your reply rate better than anything else. The same thing happened again and again even when I varied the time of day. Your mileage may differ really, depending on where you are.

I asked three friends who use these regularly with a couple of accounts, and the results surprised me. The recurring theme was how quickly fake profiles get removed — it is easy to check and almost never checked.

I logged what actually happened across two cities, and the conclusion was not what I wanted. More than anything, the actual reply rate matters more than the brand name.

The signals I now look for first:

• Look at whether matches expire after a set time — the marketing never covers this.
• Worth confirming how the app orders your inbox
• Whether the filters narrow by anything that matters — it is easy to test and rarely advertised.

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