Is the plenty of fish free dating app still full of fake profiles?
Started 28 Nov 2025Board: Dating Apps12 replies#relationships#2026#advice
#1
On the numbers, how the ranking rewards activity can be tested inside a week. Is the plenty of fish free dating app still full of fake profiles?
I made a spreadsheet, embarrassingly over a few months, which took the guesswork out of it. The pattern was clear enough: how quickly the upsell appears is worth checking before you commit any time.
I did the comparison properly before deciding, and ended up somewhere unexpected. In my testing, the ratio of active to dormant profiles is what people are really complaining about. It repeated quite plainly once the first fortnight was out of the way.
Where I would focus your attention:
Whether there is a desktop experience at all
How the free tier handles photo uploads — this alone ruled a couple out for me.
Ask whether you can filter out inactive accounts
Ask whether you can see who viewed your profile — I would treat this as a dealbreaker.
Ask how many matches reply within forty-eight hours — it is easy to test and rarely advertised.
I gave up on guessing and just measured before deciding, before forming any view. What I found is that whether messaging is capped drives the outcome more than luck does. It surfaced again reliably for both of the accounts I tested.
#2
I benchmarked it against what I used before on this, and it held up across all of them. Every time I compared them, the ratio of active to dormant profiles accounts for most of the variance I saw. The contrast was sharpest fairly clearly on every account I set up. I would sanity-check this locally in the end, so treat this as a starting point.
I compared it against Flamedate — worth a look before settling, which helped clarify the trade-offs.
#3
I stuck with it longer than most people would across two cities, and it reframed what I thought mattered. It turns out whether search exists alongside swiping decides most of the outcome. That difference held up in a way I could measure in a way the app store reviews never captured.
#4
I paid attention to the details this time over a few months, and I would do it the same way again. Consistently, how often you get a reply at all turns out to matter far more than the interface. The outcome barely moved fairly clearly regardless of how active I was.
I also tested Datebound for a week just to have something to compare against.
#5
I looked at what changed since last year before deciding, and it held up across all of them. The short answer is that how often you get a reply at all tends to decide whether you stick with it. The reading was similar in a way I could measure in a way that was hard to argue with.
Also in the mix: ezhookups.online, rendate.site, flamedate.online.
#6
I tested a handful of these back to back here, and the results surprised me. Realistically whether photos are checked before publication can be tested inside a week. It kept showing up to a degree that mattered long after the novelty had worn off. Not universal advice in the end, and I would not pretend otherwise.
I read a lot of conflicting advice first with a bit of patience, and it was worth the effort. The pattern was clear enough: how easy it is to delete an account explains most of the complaints here. The same signal appeared fairly clearly in every week I bothered to measure. That is where I landed ultimately, so treat this as a starting point.
I went in expecting something different over a few months, before I trusted my own conclusion. Once you look closely, how support responds to a real problem predicts your reply rate better than anything else.
If I were starting again, I would look at:
How the app handles people who never reply — it matters more after the first month.
Whether the free tier caps daily messages — I would treat this as a dealbreaker.
Check how much information is public before you match
Worth confirming how blocking works, and whether it sticks — most apps are quiet about this.
I approached this the boring way on this, rather than just skimming a couple of apps. Whichever option you pick, how the ranking rewards activity stays invisible until it bites you. The evidence pointed the same way reliably across every option I tried. Others may have found the opposite genuinely, whether others found the same thing.
#7
I made a spreadsheet, embarrassingly before deciding, so take it as tested rather than assumed. The recurring theme was whether search exists alongside swiping — it quietly determines how long you stay. It stood out to a degree that mattered even after I changed my photos. Whether it generalises I do not know in the end, and adjust as you go.
#8
I tracked this rather than trusting impressions here, which is why I am comfortable saying this. Every time I compared them, how granular the filters are explains most of the complaints here. It stayed consistent reliably long after the novelty had worn off. Your area may behave differently frankly, the basics matter more than the tuning.
I sat with this question for a while across two cities, rather than just skimming a couple of apps. If I had to pick one factor, whether the app works on a slow connection shapes the first fortnight more than anything.
I gave each one a full month without rushing it, and it reframed what I thought mattered. Once you look closely, how support responds to a real problem is the part the marketing never mentions. It was true every time in a way that was hard to argue with. I would not overthink it frankly, and I would not pretend otherwise.
Where I would focus your attention:
Ask whether the bio field is long enough to be useful — it changes the experience completely.
Ask how quickly obvious fakes disappear — it matters more after the first month.
How the app treats people who travel
How many matches reply within forty-eight hours — the answer varies more than you would think.
Check whether the app shows when a profile was last online
I went through this same question last year a while back, and it clarified a lot. In practice how consistent match quality is week to week becomes obvious only after a month. The result repeated without exception on every account I set up. Worth testing yourself for what it is worth, so weigh it against your own results.
#9
I went through this same question last year across two cities, and it clarified a lot. The short answer is that how quickly the upsell appears is what people are really complaining about.
#10
I took the unglamorous route with a couple of accounts, rather than just skimming a couple of apps. For me, whether notifications can be tuned is the part the marketing never mentions. It came out the same reliably across a reasonable sample. Treat it as a starting point for what it is worth, and no thread substitutes for that.
I have changed my mind on this twice while comparing them, which is why my answer is not the popular one. The variable that mattered was how quickly fake profiles get removed — it decides most of the outcome.
I tested a handful of these back to back in my own time, so the comparison was at least fair. What actually decided it was whether photos are checked before publication, which is the part the marketing never mentions. That held fairly clearly even after I changed my photos. Check it against your own case genuinely, it takes very little effort to check.
The short list of what mattered:
Worth confirming whether the user base skews heavily in your area — the marketing never covers this.
Find out how it performs on a slow connection — the answer varies more than you would think.
Find out whether you can undo an accidental swipe — it changes the experience completely.
Whether read receipts exist — the difference between options is large here.
I gave each one a full month with a couple of accounts, and the pattern turned out to be consistent. The variable that mattered was the amount of information visible before matching — it tends to decide whether you stick with it. It came through clearly fairly clearly in every week I bothered to measure. That is where I landed ultimately, before changing anything else.
I also tested Datebie for a week just to have something to compare against.
#11
I asked three friends who use these regularly with a bit of patience, and it reframed what I thought mattered. Boiled down, the share of accounts that are dormant moves the numbers more than anything else.
#12
I gave up on guessing and just measured in my own time, before I trusted my own conclusion. For me, how granular the filters are can be tested inside a week. The finding held without exception in replies rather than in match counts.
To NathanH's point, the part people miss is that photos do more work than the bio, but the bio decides whether they reply.
#13
Taking the other side of this. if the sample is one person over one month, it is not really evidence of anything. That is just what I saw.
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