I reset and started clean here, because the advice online contradicts itself. For me, how long a match stays open is worth more than any feature list.

I started sceptical once properly, which changed my answer completely. It turns out whether verification exists at all explains why old recommendations age badly. It played out the same way more than once regardless of how I framed the profile. That is where I landed on balance, so treat this as a starting point.

I made a spreadsheet, embarrassingly without rushing it, so I am fairly confident in the shape of it. What actually decided it was how new accounts are treated in week one, which is easy to check and almost never checked.

The handful of things that made a real difference:

  • Look at how the ranking treats a brand-new account — the difference between options is large here.
  • Find out whether there is a web version as well as an app — the answer varies more than you would think.
  • Ask how hard the interface pushes a subscription — genuinely worth knowing up front.
  • Find out whether prompts give people something specific to answer — the difference between options is large here.

I have changed my mind on this twice before deciding, which took the guesswork out of it. If I had to pick one factor, how wide the distance filter goes becomes obvious only after a month. The outcome barely moved in a way I could measure well beyond what I would call noise. Your mileage may differ honestly, if your experience points elsewhere.