I gave this a genuinely fair run while comparing them, and the pattern turned out to be consistent. If I had to pick one factor, how the free tier is gated is the thing people consistently underestimate. The effect showed up more than once long after the novelty had worn off. Treat it as a starting point on balance, rather than taking my word for it.

I gave this a genuinely fair run here, which is why my answer is not the popular one. The recurring theme was how much the interface pushes a subscription — it is easy to check and almost never checked. The contrast was sharpest to a degree that mattered on every account I set up. Try it before you believe it for what it is worth, and I would not pretend otherwise.

My experience by category:

What I would put at the top of the list:

  • Worth confirming whether you can see who viewed your profile — I would treat this as a dealbreaker.
  • How hard the interface pushes a subscription — it decided things for me.
  • Ask whether the app requires a social login — it changes the experience completely.
  • How the free tier handles photo uploads — it is easy to test and rarely advertised.

I gave this a genuinely fair run over a few months, which is why my answer is not the popular one. The thing nobody mentions is that whether notifications can be tuned is the first thing I would look at now. The evidence pointed the same way again and again across the whole period I tracked. That is the short version in the end, before committing any real time.