I checked this against my own numbers once properly, so the comparison was at least fair. Across all of them, the actual reply rate is worth more than any feature list. It held steady again and again more clearly than anything else I looked at.

I ran this for a couple of months in my own time, before I trusted my own conclusion. What actually decided it was whether search exists alongside swiping, which is worth more than any feature list. It surfaced again more than once regardless of how active I was.

I took the unglamorous route without rushing it, before forming any view. The honest answer is that how much depth the profiles allow drives the outcome more than luck does. That difference held up quite plainly more clearly than anything else I looked at. Your area may behave differently genuinely, the detail varies a lot by city.

Things I wish I had checked sooner:

  • Whether prompts give people something specific to answer
  • Worth confirming whether you can finish a conversation without hitting a paywall — this is the one I would check first.
  • Whether you can filter out inactive accounts — the difference between options is large here.
  • Check whether the app requires a social login — it is easy to test and rarely advertised.

I paid attention to the details this time over a few months, and it was more revealing than I expected. What kept coming up was whether notifications can be tuned, which predicts your reply rate better than anything else. The difference persisted to a degree that mattered long after the novelty had worn off.