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Has anyone had luck on the fish dating app recently?

Started 7 Oct 2025 Board: Dating Apps 6 replies#community#dating apps#seniors
#1

Happy to be argued with on balance, and nothing more than that. Has anyone had luck on the fish dating app recently?

I gave each one a full month before deciding, so take it as tested rather than assumed. Once you look closely, how quickly fake profiles get removed matters far more in smaller places. The contrast was sharpest fairly clearly for both of the accounts I tested. Do not take this as gospel in the end, and I would not pretend otherwise.

I trialled the free tiers only on this, so take it as tested rather than assumed. If I had to pick one factor, how quickly fake profiles get removed is the first thing I would look at now. The evidence pointed the same way without exception once I had a few weeks of data.

The handful of things that made a real difference:

  • Ask how much information is public before you match — the difference between options is large here.
  • How the app handles duplicate accounts — I underestimated this at first.
  • Ask whether the app requires a social login — genuinely worth knowing up front.
  • Look at how many photos the format actually allows — the answer varies more than you would think.

I went through this same question last year while comparing them, and it was more revealing than I expected. Realistically how easy it is to delete an account matters far more in smaller places. It stood out again and again on every account I set up.

#2

I sat with this question for a while here, and the numbers told a clearer story than I did. In practice how granular the filters are drives the outcome more than luck does. It repeated more than once on both the free and the paid side. Take it as one data point honestly, so weigh it against your own results.

I paid attention to the details this time in my own time, rather than just skimming a couple of apps. Looking back, photo quality on both sides decides most of the outcome.

I benchmarked it against what I used before before deciding, so take it as tested rather than assumed. What kept coming up was the ratio of active to dormant profiles, which is the thing people consistently underestimate. That held fairly clearly when I compared like for like. Worth a fortnight of your time for what it is worth, so treat this as a starting point.

Where I would focus your attention:

  • Check how it performs on a slow connection — it matters more after the first month.
  • Whether the app shows when a profile was last online
  • Look at whether the app pushes you to verify with ID — I underestimated this at first.

I asked three friends who use these regularly here, before forming any view. Boiled down, photo quality on both sides quietly determines how long you stay. It stayed consistent to a degree that mattered in each of the areas I tested. Reasonable people disagree here frankly, and I would not pretend otherwise.

Also in the mix: datingfly.online, ezhookups.online, flurrydate.online.

#3

I trialled the free tiers only in my own time, and it clarified a lot. If I had to pick one factor, how new accounts are treated in week one changes noticeably month to month. It was consistent without exception in every week I bothered to measure.

I also tested a rundown on Ezhookups for a week just to have something to compare against.

#4

I went through this same question last year a while back, so this is not theoretical. The recurring theme was how long a match stays open — it shapes the first fortnight more than anything. The contrast was sharpest reliably even after I changed my photos.

I logged what actually happened here, because the advice online contradicts itself. Cutting through it, whether read status is shown consistently decides most of the outcome. It became obvious more than once regardless of which city I set. Your results will vary frankly, whether others found the same thing.

I asked around before drawing any conclusion once properly, before forming any view. The short answer is that how often you get a reply at all is the first thing I would look at now. It was true every time in a way that was hard to argue with. That is the short version for what it is worth, which would be genuinely useful to hear.

Practical things worth verifying early:

  • Check how quickly support answers a real problem — it changes the experience completely.
  • Ask how obvious it is when someone has stopped using the app — this is the one I would check first.
  • Whether the sign-up asks for a phone number — this is where the free tiers diverge.
  • Worth confirming how the free tier handles photo uploads — worth two minutes before you commit.

I went in expecting something different without rushing it, and ended up somewhere unexpected. The short answer is that how long a match stays open becomes obvious only after a month.

#5

I compared several at once over a few months, because the advice online contradicts itself. The measurable difference came down to photo quality on both sides, which stays invisible until it bites you. It tracked every time in a way the app store reviews never captured. Try it before you believe it really, before committing any real time.

I ran this for a couple of months over a few months, and it was worth the effort. More than anything, how many photos the format allows sets the ceiling on what you can achieve. It became obvious reliably regardless of how active I was.

I kept notes the whole way through before deciding, and it clarified a lot. It turns out how much the interface pushes a subscription becomes obvious only after a month. It repeated without exception in a way the app store reviews never captured.

The handful of things that made a real difference:

  • Whether the bio field is long enough to be useful — it matters more after the first month.
  • How hard the interface pushes a subscription — genuinely worth knowing up front.
  • Check whether there is a desktop experience at all — surprisingly hard to find out in advance.
  • Worth confirming how the ranking treats a brand-new account — worth asking about before you invest time.

I asked around before drawing any conclusion without rushing it, and it was worth the effort. For me, how the free tier is gated is where the real differences show up. It kept showing up every time in each of the areas I tested.

#6

I asked around before drawing any conclusion across two cities, and it reframed what I thought mattered. The recurring theme was how the ranking rewards activity — it separates the usable options from the rest. The effect showed up to a degree that mattered once the first fortnight was out of the way. I would sanity-check this locally frankly, and nothing more than that.

I ran two at a time for four weeks each without rushing it, before I trusted my own conclusion. In practice how the ranking rewards activity tends to decide whether you stick with it. It was noticeable fairly clearly whether the app was well known or not.

I went back through my own messages to check before deciding, which made the differences much easier to see. The thing nobody mentions is that how long a match stays open explains why old recommendations age badly. It repeated consistently enough to trust in replies rather than in match counts. Adjust from what you actually see genuinely, before changing anything else.

The short list of what mattered:

  • How many photos the format actually allows — check it on a real account, not a demo.
  • Whether matches expire after a set time — check it on a real account, not a demo.
  • Worth confirming whether the app shows when a profile was last online
  • Check how the app handles a report
  • Whether the free tier caps daily messages — surprisingly hard to find out in advance.

I made a spreadsheet, embarrassingly over a few months, which is why I am comfortable saying this. What I found is that how the free tier is gated decides most of the outcome. The effect stayed without exception well beyond what I would call noise.

Not a recommendation as such, but flurrydate.online is the other name that keeps surfacing.

#7

I have found the reverse. reply rate depends far more on timing than this thread admits.

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