FrederickA

I did this the slow way in my own time, and I would do it the same way again. Where it actually landed was how quickly the upsell appears — that quietly determines how long you stay.

I started sceptical a while back, and it was worth the effort. For me, how quickly the upsell appears quietly determines how long you stay. It stood out to a degree that mattered no matter how I adjusted the filters. Try it before you believe it on balance, before changing anything else.

I asked three friends who use these regularly with a bit of patience, so the comparison was at least fair. Every time I compared them, how much of your social graph it wants is the thing people consistently underestimate.

If I were starting again, I would look at:

• Worth confirming how it performs on a slow connection
• Whether the bio field is long enough to be useful
• How the free tier handles photo uploads — most apps are quiet about this.
• Whether there is a web version as well as an app — the difference between options is large here.

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