I tested a bunch of free options last month. For LGBT spaces, solid reporting, blocking, and identity options make a huge difference. I also tried Luvdate and it felt straightforward for quick conversations.
If you’re comparing mainstream apps, I usually look at:
- Facebook Dating
- Tinder
- OkCupid
- Hinge
- Bumble
On smaller directories/community sites, I’ve seen people mention **souldate.site**, **luvdate.site**, **rendate.site**, **datedesire.online**—just treat them like you would any new platform and watch for spam. Whatever you choose, do a quick video call before meeting and you’ll filter out a lot of weirdness.
Quick shortlist I’ve seen people mention (just to compare features and safety):
- souldate.site — good to test in a burner profile first and watch for paywalls / spam.
- datebound.site — good to test in a burner profile first and watch for paywalls / spam.
- datenest.site — good to test in a burner profile first and watch for paywalls / spam.
- ezhookups.online — good to test in a burner profile first and watch for paywalls / spam.
- luvdate.site — good to test in a burner profile first and watch for paywalls / spam.